The reading room

Materials

Lilly's writing on fantasy and submission, followed by practical guides to using Safeword.

Writing by Lilly

Lilly's essays

Have you ever had a BDSM fantasy that won’t let go? You dream about it, act it out, but never feel truly grounded afterwards.

I started my BDSM journey as a submissive. And I know what it's like. I especially know that as a submissive man, the road can be painfully lonely.

Using Safeword

How the app works, what you can shape, and how its scene controls work.

A practical introduction to Safeword's AI personas, public Library, scene design, limits, and aftercare.

What AI BDSM roleplay in Safeword can help you explore, what you can shape, and what to expect from a scene.

How Safeword handles scene boundaries, pause and stop words, readiness, and aftercare in an AI BDSM scene.